Selfish
Contract
The Selfish Contract
with Alyx Allen
helping women
turn their struggles into
POWERHOUSE
STRENGTHs
so they have the audacity to live fearlessly
1:1 EMPOWERMENT COACHING
Empowering women to
own their sh*t —
so they have the audacity
to live fearlessly
DOING THE WORK
Alyx Allen
Selfish
Contract
THE
Building women up by breaking down the barriers that are keeping them stuck. I’m committed to your evolution as a woman to become familiar with yourself again after going through a tough transitional season of your life that has left you feeling not “like yourself”, burnt out or just straight up lost. Whether it’s marriage, divorce, motherhood, a new career, loss, (and so on?) I’m here to empower your NOW, to help you STOP self-sabotaging and start showing up as your absolute best self — like the BOSS BABE you are!
Empowerment coaching
Established 2021
Registered family & marriage therapist / Coach
Does This Sound Familiar?
You’re always in the position of helping others but never able to receive the same energy from people. Constantly feeling drained from the roles other’s expect from you.
You’ve achieved all of the things you were “supposed to” but still feel lost and incomplete.
You struggle with setting boundaries and feel guilty when you do. Ultimately leading you to feel forgotten, ashamed, and burnt out.
You know you’re made for more, but not sure what it is.
YES & I'M OVER IT!
HOW CAN I HELP YOU?
Before I was a therapist, empowerment coach & a self-proclaimed badass, I was a strong yet broken girl who felt lost in every aspect of her life. One thing I’ve always been good at is calling bullshit and it was time to call myself out because I constantly strived for outside validation.
It was during this time that I realized my greatest heartbreak is wasted potential and I didn’t want to waste my own. And, in return I don’t want you to waste yours.
The Selfish Contract was built on the idea that when women are empowered to own their shit, they begin to grow in ways they never thought they possible. They become more of themselves regardless of their past/current circumstances. No matter the goal you’ve set for yourself, you are making a selfish decision to focus on you. There’s no greater time to become everything you were intended. You just have to be willing to give yourself the space to do so.
I've Been There. . .
GET TO KNOW ALYX
Coaching
Therapy
SHORT-TERM (3-12MO.)
Forward-focused
goal: Reach full
POTENTIAL
VIRTUAL/ANYWHERE
Long-term 9mo. +
Focus on processing
Goal: Realize normal FUNCTIONING
IN-PERSON (NV BASED)
Prioritizing
your
growth
What’s The Difference?
I'm Not the Right Coach For You If
You enjoy playing the victim and self-sabotaging
You want to continue being a slave to your trauma
You want things to be sugar-coated
You want to continue feeling burnt-out and lost
You enjoy carrying the weight of other people
You don’t want to overcome your limiting beliefs
“I have a better understanding of where and who I was putting my energy into. She gave me a sense of clarity on what boundaries I needed and it has changed my life. Alyx taught me how to get in my own way & strategies on how to elevate my life entirely.”
- Chelsea g.
Life Changing Work
"Alyx helped empower me to speak my truth and not worry if it upsets those even closest to me. She taught me that I can prioritize myself without changing who I am, but amplify who I want to be."
- Angelica s.
Prioritizing Myself
" She made me feel sane in a lot of issues I was dealing with. I always felt heard and understood which helped my anxiety. She encouraged me to journal and get to know my feelings so I knew how to navigate where I was emotionally."
Learning
to
Navigate
You’re alone in your room enjoying a peaceful Friday night. Your phone rings, not once but four times. Of course your boss, mom, best friend & the aunt you hardly talk to; all need you at the same time. You confidently decline the calls because Friday nights are your non-negotiable time to recharge and you can’t pour from an empty cup. No guilt, just confident in knowing you can show up for them once you’ve shown up for yourself, first.
You’re thriving in all areas in a life you created. You broke away from other’s expectations and have begun to live for yourself and no one else. You’ve finally learned that being selfish was not only a choice, but a necessity to live a life you’ve always wanted.
Imagine If
i want in
THE RESULT
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